It's Never Too Late to Find Your Match
When it comes to love, age is just a number—and that couldn’t be truer for singles over 35 who are ready to find meaningful, lasting connections. Whether you’re divorced, widowed, or simply haven’t found the right person yet, the search for love doesn’t end at 35 - in fact, it often gets better.
At Swipe No More, we specialise in connecting like-minded, mature singles across Essex, London, and Hertfordshire who are serious about finding real relationships.
Essex
From countryside walks and cosy gastropubs to vibrant social scenes in towns like Chelmsford and Brentwood, Essex is full of romantic potential.
London
A cultural melting pot where the possibilities for dating are endless—yet many London professionals find it hard to meet someone genuine. That’s where we help.
Hertfordshire
A beautiful blend of rural peace and urban convenience, perfect for those who value both quiet connection and vibrant socialising.
With our local knowledge and extensive network, we’re uniquely positioned to help you meet someone special—right in your own area.
Why Matchmaking Works for Over 35s
-Why it Works-
Modern dating apps can feel overwhelming, impersonal, and time-consuming—especially for those of us who know exactly what we’re looking for. That’s where a personal matchmaking service comes in. Our approach is private, personalised, and built on genuine human connection, not algorithms.
Our clients often tell us how refreshing it is to speak to real people who understand where they are in life. Whether you're looking for companionship, romance, or even marriage, we take the time to get to know you—and introduce you to people who truly align with your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals.
You know yourself better
You value quality more
You're ready
Ready to Start a New Chapter?
Whether you’re nervous about getting back out there or excited for a fresh start, we’re here to guide you every step of the way. From confidence counselling /coaching to private introductions, our expert matchmakers are dedicated to helping you find someone who genuinely complements your life.
Don’t let age define your dating journey. Love doesn’t have a deadline - and your match could be just one conversation away.
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Book a free consultation or get in touch to find out how we can help you start your next chapter with confidence.
Meet Our Team
Co-Founder & Head Matchmaker
Jo
Jo is a naturally social and people-focused, with years of experience in team management and the entertainment industry. Throughout her career, she has built lasting relationships by listening attentively, understanding individual needs, and fostering meaningful connections. Known for her intuition and genuine enthusiasm for bringing people together, Jo brings both empathy and expertise to her role as a matchmaker.
Her own love story blossomed later in life, giving her a unique perspective and a heartfelt passion for supporting those still searching for their perfect partner. She deeply understands the challenges many singles face and approaches each client with compassion and encouragement.
Jo’s mission is simple: to help others find the kind of love that truly lasts—at any stage of life.
Co-Founder & Head Matchmaker
Clare
With over 15 years of experience as an Accredited Counsellor, Clare has helped countless individuals navigate the complexities of love, loss, and new beginnings. Now, as the joint founder of Swipe No More, she brings that same empathy, insight, and expertise to a matchmaking service designed exclusively for people over 35, whether starting fresh after divorce, separation, loss, or simply ready for a meaningful connection.
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Clare understands that dating later in life can feel daunting, especially after life’s major transitions. That’s why she offers more than just matchmaking, she provides a compassionate, thoughtful approach rooted in emotional awareness and human connection.
At Swipe No More, it’s no longer about swiping it’s about finding someone who truly fits.
Events Manager & Matchmaker
Lorraine
As our Events Manager and Matchmaker, Lorraine brings warmth, energy, and a genuine passion for helping people connect. Married for the second time in March 2022, she truly understands the beauty of finding love again and brings that insight into every event she curates. Social by nature and driven by a love for meaningful connections, Lorraine excels at creating welcoming, engaging spaces where singles feel at ease and open to new possibilities. Her personal journey inspires her professional approach, making her an empathetic, intuitive force behind our most memorable events.
Counsellor and Coach
Michelle
Hi I’m Shell, with 17 years of experience as a Family Law Solicitor, I’ve spent much of my professional life supporting individuals through some of their most personal and challenging transitions. That experience taught me the value of empathy, clear communication, and the importance of strong, healthy relationships.
Today, I combine my legal background with a Postgraduate Diploma in Coaching and Counselling and over 8 years experience in group coaching that focussed on weight-loss and getting active. My approach is warm, insightful, and grounded in both real-world experience and evidence-based coaching practices.
My coaching style is compassionate and practical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of long-term habit change. Whether you’re looking for love or learning how to build healthier relationships—starting with the one you have with yourself—I’m here to guide and support you every step of the way.
Counsellor
Raoul
Hi, I’m Raoul Lindsay — a qualified counsellor and relationship expert with over a decade of experience helping people navigate emotional wellbeing, personal growth, and meaningful connection.
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As a BACP-registered therapist with a background in CBT and mental health services across the NHS and private sectors, I bring a unique, psychologically informed approach to matchmaking. My objective isn’t just about introducing people — it’s about understanding who you are at your core, what you're truly looking for, and helping you find a relationship that reflects your values, desires, and life goals.
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Whether you're ready for love but tired of swiping, or you're navigating dating after a major life transition, I aim to offer a personalised, confidential space designed to support the creation of matches rooted in emotional compatibility, shared values, and genuine chemistry.
Hair Stylist
Lauren
I am a freelance hair stylist with over 10 years of experience in the beauty industry. For me, hair styling is more than just creating a look; it’s about bringing out confidence and helping people feel truly amazing in their own skin.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of working with a wide range of clients, from those preparing for special dates and events to individuals wanting to build their personal brand and elevate their profiles. I specialise in creating styles that not only enhance your natural beauty but also reflect your personality and lifestyle.
Photographer
Sophie
I’m Sophie Dunne, a portrait photographer with 25+ years’ experience and a real passion for capturing people at their very best. I run a modern, relaxed studio in Buckhurst Hill, where my style is all about natural, flattering portraits that feel genuine and full of personality.
I know most people don’t love being in front of the camera, so I make every shoot comfortable, and confidence-boosting. My aim is for clients to walk away not only with amazing photos but also with that extra spark of self-belief that shines through in their pictures
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Head of Social Media
Emilie
Emilie is a Social Media Marketer who is passionate about helping people make meaningful connections.
With a background in multiple industries she is always exploring new ways to make a brand feel personal, approachable, and fun - just like how dating should be.